Hey Beauty!

BEAUTY SECRETS

What are the simple things, making you more beautiful on other peoples’ eye and the eyes of their hearts?

1) Control the way you talk – Try to stop your mouth from saying bad things to others, and never spread rumors.
2) Control the way you think – Stop thinking negatively what you do and others.
3) Stop being greedy – Be thankful and feel the joy
4) Always try to help others in need – And never hope anything for return.
5) Always put a smile on your face – Especially to those who have problem with you.
6) Never hesitate to share – Sharing is caring~
7) Always wear nice and proper clothing – No need for fancy and brandy clothes, just wear something nice, and clean everyday.

So, remember, beauty is never just about the face!

Take A Break!

Take A Break...Take A Holiday!

Haa…tired of your daily life? Just take a break ,go holiday…spend time with your family and friends, we’re lucky that we’re now in Malaysia, a very peace and beautiful country, just no need to be too extreme when you think about taking a holiday, Paris, New York, New Zealand, Gold Coast are not the only places that when you go you can say that you’d been on a holiday, no, just spend your time and money in our own country…Hundred of awesome places we have…places to swim, to camp, shopping and more!

And I just found out about this new local web site, full of information about Malaysia’s famous places and we can book online reservation to all the hotels and resorts in Malaysia…just click http://www.asiaclickbooking.com/ now and go holiday!

Being A Good Leader

To lead and be followed

Yes today’s hot topic, leadership, I’m not writing this article due to our country’s political condition, just giving some ideas on how to be a leader, that lead with love ~

Your idea is not always the best
>> Having a good meeting session means that you need to listen, to all opinions given and make comparison, think of the pro and con of each idea, don’t care from whom the idea is, because a good leader always let the best idea wins…

Understand your followers’ problem
>> Sometimes, as a leader you need to be “down below” with all the person below you, listen to what they said, understand their needs, before any decisions is made…

Always telling the truth
>>Once you lied to the people, it’s always hard for you to gain back their trust, and when you started to lie, you’ll begin to lie again to cover up your 1st lie..and another and another and another….

Make sure that you’re not just a big name
>>you must show that you play your role and not just giving orders. Don’t be a dictator or a leader with iron fingernail haha…

Say it, and do it!
>> You need to be firm, once you made your decision, you must prove that you can and will do it…be tough!

Always give your fellows compliments
>>Being a boss doesn’t mean that you always get the honest respect from your fellows, you need to show your appreciation to them every time they did something good…

Ok then , hope that they’ll be no more a leader hated by the followers after this…it is not a hard thing to be a leader, but the hard thing is to be a leader that will be followed to whatever ends~

Taking good care of your wife~

She...the wife

For all the husbands out there, you’re all very lucky…. Your wife is your wife, she came into your life and completing it…She’s always a normal person, might not be perfect in many ways…but a wife is always a great gift, always a great gift for you…
I just don’t get it why there’re cases where wives were beaten badly, divorced through sms, post and etc...your wife is the only person that you are allowed by law and religion to spend your time with, share things with, to pour your love as much as you wanted to, sometimes we need to look back to the real reasons why that we wanted so much to get married, basically is to avoid from doing sins.
Don’t take marriage as a small matter, if you feel like you don’t like it, divorce…problems a bit here and there, divorce…this is not and never right…there are a few tips for you ;

***always accept your wife for what she is, don’t imagine like she is someone else

*** It is natural for a wife to nag , just don’t listen for what she said, take the main point and be deaf~

*** Always give appreciation to your wife…give compliments everyday

*** You must understand and give her time to think, to be with her family , some time for her to be alone…

*** You also need to be a good listener when your wife wanted to share things…


These are just a few tips…but just remember that keeping your family happy is everyone’s responsibility, especially you, husband, the head of a family…divorce is always the worst of a legal thing to do…

Stop Hiding!

Appreciating yourself

As I said previously, love yourself first before you start to love someone else. Loving yourself never the same like being selfish, just that never allow yourself to feel you different with the people around, not as smart, not as pretty, not as etc…what the fun! Always believed in yourself, never hope that someone else to do that for you…if you know that you’re doing the right thing, just be yourself, do it, don’t care about all the stupid sounds entering your ear saying that you’re this, you’re that, spread you chest wide, smile and go on, never give up, catch your dream, own it…friends…it’s time to GLOW!

Spread the Love~

It is easy for us say or advice others to love each other, just bury the hatchet, spread the love, and bla bla bla…but does it really easy turning it into action? In today’s world? Where to much wrong things done, when to much hearts seeded with grudge, when the earth already taste too much of tears and blood? I think, it is not an easy thing to spread the love today, to build a loving community that really cares for each other…

After I spent sometimes, relaxing and doing nothing else but thinking, over this matter, I do realize there are a few obstacles that turn out to be the invincible walls, stopping us from being nice and caring in its real meaning.

<1>Difficulty in being honest or sincere
I don’t know either to call it sincerity, or honesty, but how many of us today really have the ability to just give and forget? Especially when we sacrificed the things that means a lot to us, doing things for other that really take a lot of us in many ways…after doing all these , did you really forget about it and does your heart really asked nothing back ?

<2>Jealousy
This one, this feeling really is not a stranger for many hearts…you know what, people said that if you took ecstasy, you won’t realize that you’ve been awake for days, and I said , if you have this feeling, you won’t realize that you’d be a back-stabber, put a dot to a lot of relationship. How to make this jealous feeling jealous?..yeah..be grateful..always be…

<3>"Forgive you?!”
Forgiving others that did wrong deeds upon you is really a hard thing to do, and the biggest obstacle for you to be nice. It is hard, but sometime we need to realize that we won’t be living forever, the time will come, we need to teach our heart to forgive, learn, and forget…If you manage to forgive, means that you have a very strong heart.

<4>Pride
When people owns too much knowledge, money, property,they put themselves at a level higher from those average…feeling that they’re better in many ways, separating themselves away from other, refuse to talk, mingle with everyone else whom for them does not reach their level…pride = community homicide.

We need to understand that every people lived on this world today are born difference with each other, we need to accept that not all people around us is the from the type that we like, sometimes we need to adapt…this world even this life is not belong to us…remember…sharing is caring…

Say Cheeze!

Yeah…say cheese! Hehe, smile is magic. Smile can heal, cheer you up, not only you, but all the people around you, when you smile, you’re actually making your problems mad, all the bad feelings they’d caused gone just like that huhu~

Why you should always put a smile on your face?:

<1>
Smiling actually needs less muscles work, means, less muscle strain + less pain = NICE AND EASY FEELINGS BLOOMED

<2>
A smiling face attracts peoples to you, people will feel more comfortable to get along with you…

<3>
Smiling can make you feel the burden on your shoulder turned lighter, not denying that it is still there, but smiling can make you feel that the problem can be solve and you’ll get extra strength to face it.

<4>
Don’t care about white teeth, nice lips, always you are more beautiful with a smile on your face, today, no one is perfect, don’t stop smiling just because you get laugh at when you smile, when you keep smiling, means that deep inside you are way beautiful and stronger then those who’re laughing at you.

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A smile is so powerful that it has the power to make everyone around you to feel your happiness, and share it.


So…always say cheese! Nothing to lose, just begin your day with a smile on your face ~