Parents And Children

Understanding parents

Usually children, especially teenagers love to think that their parents just don’t understand them, what they want, why, where they want to go, their hobby and everything else. But the fact is, does we children ever spend some times thinking of our parents mind, why would they made such decisions, why did they got so angry at things that we did which for us only a small matter? Why? It is because they’re born before us. They lived on this world for such a long time, facing numerous incidents, knowing a many types of people and get really matured as time goes by.

Parents usually/normally:

1 ) Always think of what’s the best for their children, sometimes hesitating what their children wanted most

2 ) parents usually think and do and do things practically, according to their own past experience which are actually good for their children, but the way they make their children to follow what they want, the way they approached them, can sometime be the destroyer.

3 ) Some parents just failed to understand when their children actually already grown up and still they look at their children as they’re still small and didn’t have the ability to think and make decision on their own.

What are the consequences when parents failed to understand their children?


1) Usually children get frustrated, depressed and these will then creating a huge ‘gap’ between them and their parents.

2)Children lost their interest to share their personal life and problems with their parents.
Children will assume that their friends are more understanding, and sometimes they even willing to do things and sacrifice for them without thinking much of effects it will bring to their future.

3)Children who have problem with their parents, usually failed to be a good leader, and have low self-esteem.

Sometimes, parents might just forget that children, even if they’re already a teenager, they can’t think maturely enough, especially when it comes to their personal matters, where theory n logic just doesn’t apply. Children are born to love their parents always love their parents, always, but sometimes, when problem arose, both side need to really think what are the best approached to reach each other, solve the problem ,and left no “scratch” on their relation~