PRESERVING RELATIONSHIP
You really care for your love one,and always afraid that your relation might come to an end, need help to keep your relation smooth and happy, there’re some tips that might help ;
<->NEVER LIE !
Nothing actually hurt as bad as a lie can cause. Hearts get broken, tears falling, love killed, and hatred born. Quite dramatic, but actually true, if you lie to the person you love, it’s actually similar like you planted a time bomb in your relation. Be honest, always…relation based on a lie is actually no relation at all….
<->QUEEN/KING CONTROL PROBLEM
Don’t get to bossy, no one like it naturally , don’t treat your love one as your slave, even if she is your wife, this kind of problem will make your couple feels like living in an invisible prison, uncomfortable and these kind of feelings should never exist in a relation
<->EXPECTATIONS
Love your love one for what he or she is, don’t expect them to be someone else, they’re not sir optimus prime, just normal human being, cannot transform. Expectations actually create pressure, this will emotionally torture them, and can put a stop to your relation, just avoid this.
<->DON’T GET TOO JEALOUSY
Actually jealous is a real love sign, but too much can cause a lot of problem, you’ll start quarreling, you’ll feel tired like butter spread over too much bread…so, stop thinking bad about your spouse, pray for the best, and always ask him or her to be honest…
Hope that all the tips can be your pain-killer…healer…huhu~
1 comment:
juz wanna add some more....
emmm...never keep any secrets between u and ur partner...once u keep the secret, it will consider that u never trust ur partner...and ur relantionship will be not last forever...
and i dun think that never lie is the best thing to keep relationship smooth...sometimes we need to lie to them for the sake of happiness...ye la kan, for example...u have a sensitive partner, and he/she has an attitude that u don't like or u allergic to see it, such as the way he/she dress, the way he/she eat or anything else...then u want to tell he/she about that,of course he/she will not understand and they will think that they are too bad in the eyes of his/her partner...so, i think better to lie than telling them the truth...if u have sporting and understanding partner, sure they will understand and try to change that...so...it's depend actually...=)
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